“The challenges of finding love are highly complex, seldom systematically explored, and relatively new.”
Alain de Botton, The School of Life
Dating isn’t hard because men are inherently assholes. Dating isn’t hard because the apps are bullshit. Dating isn’t hard because people don’t want to settle down.
Dating is hard because it’s an emotionally complicated endeavor, the ultimate goal of which is no small feat: a deep and meaningful connection with a person you respect, admire and love. It takes grit, courage, humility, vulnerability, forgiveness and endless compassion for one's self. It also takes a very clear vision of what one is seeking. No tip, trick or rule will trump that reality.
I’m proposing a dating approach which boldly embraces that truth. If:
You crave an approach to dating that isn’t based in rules, games and what-to-text-back advice.
The idea of digging in and doing the deep, beautiful internal work needed to achieve, meaningful partnership gets you excited and energized.
You seek extraordinary partnership. You don’t just want a boyfriend/husband/SO — you want to desire to build a life with someone.
You’re eager to gain crystal clarity on your own patterns and blocks to intimacy and connection, and are ready to do the deep work to get yourself there. You’re ready to get really honest with yourself.
No matter where you are in your journey — be it just getting back into dating, completely burnt out with the process, or simply looking to improve your approach — I’m here for you. I want to help you find your way back to yourself and to an approach that makes you feel empowered and energized.